Attire
We want this night to feel as special as it is.
What This Means
"Black tie" is one of those phrases that means different things to different people. Here's exactly what we're envisioning so you can dress with confidence.
Yes, please
- ✦Floor-length gowns for women — the longer the better
- ✦Tuxedo for men — black or midnight navy, bow tie, white dress shirt
- ✦Jewel tones welcome — deep blue, emerald, burgundy, gold
- ✦Formal fabrics — velvet, silk, satin, chiffon, organza
- ✦Statement jewelry, a clutch, and heels or dressy flats (cobblestone streets!)
- ✦Jumpsuits or pantsuits in luxe fabrics are a welcome alternative
- ✦When in doubt, err on the side of more formal — you truly cannot be overdressed
Skip these
- ×White, ivory, cream, or anything close — reserved for the bride
- ×Suits instead of tuxedos — this is black tie, not business formal
- ×Long ties — bow ties only, please
- ×Cocktail dresses or anything above the knee
- ×Casual dresses, sundresses, or separates
- ×Belts with a tuxedo — wear suspenders instead
- ×Jeans, sneakers, or anything you'd wear to brunch
Style Notes
The vibe
Dress to impress. Hollywood glamour meets Mexico City magic. Think Academy Awards, not a garden party.
For her
Column gowns, dramatic sleeves, rich fabrics. Velvet, silk, satin, organza. A well-cut pantsuit in a jewel tone is also a strong move. The goal is something that has a real moment to it.
For him
A tuxedo — full stop. Black jacket, bow tie, white dress shirt. Cufflinks and a pocket square. Suspenders, not a belt. Patent leather or polished dress shoes. Feel free to dress it up and accessorize as you see fit.
Not sure where to start?
This guide from Brides covers everything you need to know about dressing for a black-tie wedding. Read the guide →
